The Complete Privacy Checklist for Adult Social Platforms

Before engaging with any private adult social platform, a few deliberate steps can make a significant difference to how safely and comfortably you participate. This checklist brings together the most important privacy actions for adults considering or currently using a private social connection platform. Work through it before submitting your first request and revisit it periodically to ensure your approach remains current.

Before You Submit Any Request

• Decide on a pseudo name that does not identify you publicly — avoid your real name, initials, or any handle used elsewhere online.
• Choose a Telegram username that is neutral and does not reveal identifying information.
• Confirm that your Telegram account has an active username so the team can contact you.
• Enable two-factor authentication on your Telegram account.
• Decide in advance what personal details you are comfortable sharing and what you will not include.

Telegram Privacy Settings to Configure

• Phone number visibility → set to "Nobody".
• Last Seen & Online → set to "Nobody" or "My Contacts".
• Profile photo visibility → set to "My Contacts".
• Who can call you → set to "My Contacts" or "Nobody".
• Message forwarding permission → turn off.

During Communication

• Do not share photos that contain identifiable background details — home, workplace, or recognisable landmarks.
• Avoid mentioning your full name, precise address, or employer in early conversations.
• Never share financial information with any contact under any circumstances.
• Use your platform pseudo name consistently to maintain separation from your real identity.
• Trust your instincts — if a conversation feels wrong, step back without obligation to explain.

Ongoing Habits

Privacy is not a one-time setup — it is a set of ongoing habits. Periodically review your Telegram privacy settings, especially after any app update that might reset preferences. Be selective about which contacts you allow, and do not hesitate to block and report anyone whose behaviour violates the platform's standards. Your comfort and security take priority over any sense of social obligation.

SwapMePlease is strictly for adults aged 18 and above. Consent, privacy, and legal compliance are required at every step.